Outside Energy

Outside Energy, debate, opinion, questions, other peoples thoughts will often pressure you into not perusing what your original plans were. What if so and so is right? what if I can’t do it? what if I fail?. We as people in this day in age are addicted to letting people know everything about ourselves, we tag locations, we post pictured of outings, we show progress, we post about decline, we are constantly craving someone else approval. Often times that approval may turn into negative feed back, comments or lack thereof even will demoralize your thought patterns and make you think as if no one cares. The old saying “Don’t tell no one what you’re going to do, until you do it” you know “actions speak louder than words” That outside energy can’t happen if you don’t allow it to happen. Outside energy is theft, angering someone is stealing their energy, when you say your going to do something, and someone starts questioning why, or how, or what if, or my experience, then you are allowing them to steal your energy. People tend to not want others to reach goals, especially in music, locally everyone claims they support, but always want to hit that achievement before anyone else, life is no different. Self empowerment is the most important part of reaching a goal, don’t tell your self “I HAVE TO DO THIS”, think of it as something you’re getting to do , something that you have been rewarded with, something that only you get to do , because in reality , when you take everyone elses opinions out of what you want to do , it is in fact something only you are doing, which makes it empowering.  Being alone on self goals is important, you have no one to blame if you fail, you will work harder to not fail, and when you win you will feel great, you will know that you kept your word to your self and you are the most important person when it comes to keeping your word. So before you make that post talking about what your going to do, stop and think about why it’s so important for everyone to know before hand?  remember, no one can put you down if you fail at something they didn’t know you were trying.